I’ve recently had a huge epiphany: I’m not for everyone. 😲 As a recovering people pleaser, this was big news to me because I’ve long held the mistaken belief that I could pretzel myself into being pleasing to all. I know, it's crazy and crazy-making.
Thanks so much Dave! I still can't believe I posted that pic - had to act on one of my core values of vulnerability. 😁 So appreciate your support and comments!
This hits so hard in such a good way. When I was 26 and fresh out of music grad school, I didn't know what kind of music I liked to play on my violin. I didn't even know if I liked playing violin. I had spent 20 years practicing what someone else had told me to practice, living other people's dreams, pleasing everyone else. Now I can answer those questions for myself and it feels so good.
Wow Alison - I so appreciate you sharing this, and that you're able to answer those questions for yourself. It's such a huge turning point in one's life.
OMG, that vintage pic of you in high school with the football. Totally adorable, Laverne! Also, once again, these essays are wonderful.
Thanks so much Dave! I still can't believe I posted that pic - had to act on one of my core values of vulnerability. 😁 So appreciate your support and comments!
I'm glad you started writing this, Laverne; I always look forward to reading your posts.
This hits so hard in such a good way. When I was 26 and fresh out of music grad school, I didn't know what kind of music I liked to play on my violin. I didn't even know if I liked playing violin. I had spent 20 years practicing what someone else had told me to practice, living other people's dreams, pleasing everyone else. Now I can answer those questions for myself and it feels so good.
Wow Alison - I so appreciate you sharing this, and that you're able to answer those questions for yourself. It's such a huge turning point in one's life.
BEAUTIFUL! Beautiful and powerful piece! Thank you, Laverne!
Thank you Caitlin! Appreciate you! ❤️